We just celebrated our 19th wedding anniversary recently, and it’s genuinely crazy to think we’ve been married that long. I remember watching Thirtysomething* as a kid, and marveling at how long being married as long as the characters were (12 years? 15 years?). They were so… grown-up, with houses, and kids, and jobs, and MARRIAGE. Lots of marriage. (*WHY was I watching this at age 13…?? Who needs that kind of stress & expectation while in junior high?!) So we’re right in those ranks now, too. Married for nearly 20 years. Nearly half of my entire life has been spent with this guy. We’ve been up, we’ve been down, we’ve been…