Spring has sprung, baby! Ah, the warmth, the shining sun, longer days. You already know how I feel about being cold, so the change has been great. And that, in turn, has made everything so much easier.
Ah, yes. Spring finally means throwing open your windows and allowing the fresh air to whirl those pesky winter germs away. It also means being conscious of lowering your decibel levels when screaming at your children as not to alarm the neighbors. And that’s hard.
Not to mention, spring brings with it a whole host of new “To-Do” items on the agenda, such as:
- more sports practices
- more sports games
- more driving to and from sports practices. And sports games.
- more outdoor play, so later bedtimes
- more laundry, because outdoor play results in dirtier children
- even more bathing (see above point)
- more errands for new sneakers, spring concert attire, birthday gifts
- more concerts, awards ceremonies, end of school preparations
- SPRING CLEANING: (Especially now that #6 is fully mobile. Nothing gives you more incentive to scrub your floors like watching your baby traipse his cute little baby hands & feet in the grime)
Spring also brings the return of playground season. So let’s discuss playgrounds.
I HATE THEM.
Before you judge me, let me hasten to say that I loved them when I was a kid; even though they were, in retrospect, terrifying.
Metal. And concrete.
Welcome to… The Thunderdome.
Tetanus? Concussions? Ah, those were the days…
Playgrounds have come a long way since back in the day, so I get why kids love going to them. And I DO take my kids to them, because why should I cloister them in my own yard when I can unleash them on the unsuspecting public?
But here’s the deal. While I LOVE watching my kids frolic and play and enjoy themselves, -I really do- it’s just… not fun for the parent.
There. I said it.
But like any decent parent, I still take them. In fact, I did recently. And here are my observations/random thoughts about the experience.
1. Babies on the slide: Yes, it’s cute. But obviously, it requires hands-on attention. And if they like it, they want to do it again. And again.
And again.
Or else. You’re in for the long haul. And everyone within hearing’s distance will suffer the baby’s wrath when pried from it.
2. Toddlers on the slide: First of all, some don’t grasp the concept, and try to go down backwards. Or standing. On one foot. And when they finally DO get it, it’s not enough to keep sliding. Then they want to climb UP the slide. Regardless of anyone coming up, or DOWN for that matter.
3. Hidden Nooks & Crannies: The equipment that a small child enters, and seemingly disappears into without a trace. Which then forces you to cram your adult frame into it to find said child, who is nowhere to be found.
Panic begins to mount, but just in time, you discover THIS:
Hiding UNDER stuff. Because when you’re two, that’s comedy gold.
4. Stunts & Tumbles: Then there’s the older group; the kids that complain how “lame” the playground is, but spend the next hour attempting all manner of death-defying climbs & maneuvers. All while on the very farthest reaches of the playground.
5. They.Don’t.Stop.Moving. They’re pumped; the blood is flowing. And they run. To here. Over there. After each other. After no one. And the problem now is, you’re training your eye on not just one, but FIVE moving targets.
6. WTF is with the sand boxes?? WHY? Save it for the beach. Because the last thing I need is my kid(s) jumping in a gnarly public pile, then being coated from head to toe with sand grit. NO ONE WINS.
7. THIS MONSTROSITY: It’s a cross between a merry go round and a train derailment. Always a total mob scene, kids flung headfirst… basically total anarchy. And the parental dilemma: you don’t want to NOT watch your kid in case they tumble off & get punted to the pavement on the next go-around, yet….
you also DON’T want to be “that parent”: the one that is forced to spin the thing repeatedly and kick the fallen child victims back into play. (Sorry, dads, it’s you. We moms know better to step away.)
8. The “Forced Social Thing” I love people, I really do. Except at the playground. The parents who stand around silently by default, eying each other. And you know it’s coming… the stilted, first-date type conversation.
I’m not trying to be rude. But with six kids to supervise, it’s ok if we don’t swap kids’ names & ages. And your kid is eating the sand.
9. They NEVER WANT TO LEAVE: You could be there for three glorious, fun-filled hours, but once you announce it’s time to go, the meltdowns begin. At least one child will morph into a rubber jellyfish of protest, one will run, and a few will pout.
10. There’s Still Day Left: Yep. Stand on your feet for 1-2 hours, catch kids, carry kids, hunt down kids, cheer on kids, wipe kids’ noses, silently resent OTHER people’s bossy kids, haul your kids back home, and… it’s still going. Dinner. Bathtime. Bedtime. And so it goes…
Ok, so I’m not a playground fan. But I DO take my kids to them. Because, kids need to be kids. And they need to run, to laugh, to BE KIDS. And despite the effort, I do savor those glimpses of my babies savoring their childhood.
Not to mention…. all that play tires them out.
Motto.
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Melissa Anne says
Oh Steph, once again you've got it! My favorite is when you go to the playground and all they want to do is swing! We came here to tire you out, not for my bicep workout. And then there's the temptation to be "that" parent who is on their smartphone while pushing behind the kid. I get it parents, I do. But there is something in me that has to resist!
Missy Homemaker says
I hate playgrounds too for all the reasons you listed and one more…The ‘I’m too busy on my cell to notice my kid’s about to die’ parent. Usually their little darling is being a snot to my kid, jumping off things they shouldn’t be, and generally doing all he can to get said parent’s attention.
If I’m at a playground, it’s an act of desperation.
Jenna Alexy says
Haha this was so funny! With only one kid I do love the playground. But you made me hate it for the future!
SixPackMommy says
No, with one kid, it’s ok. I agree. But even if you stick to just the one kid, you’re still going to end up dreading other people’s kids picking on YOUR kid. It’s like Lord of The Flies there! 😉
Elaine Allen says
Thanks for sharing this. I think I have gone through everything you mentioned in the article. Also had a trip to the ER once for a shoulder thrown out of its socket. But at the end of the day all is good:)
SixPackMommy says
Oh, good point- adding the possibility of an exhausting, hours-long ER trip afterward, too. 🙂
Yanique says
I hate the playground! My kids always want to swing and they want me to push them! Then other kids want me to push them! There are no bathrooms at our parks so God forbid one of them has to use the bathroom. I take them anyway because I know the fresh air is good for them AND they will also get super tired 🙂
SixPackMommy says
Thanks, ladies; I always feel better when I know I’m not the only mom that feels this way…!
SixPackMommy says
Lol, YES! I always end up helping out other people’s kids, too!!
Mary says
Nope! I don’t nor have I ever done play grounds!
SixPackMommy says
Thanks, Mary- I like your style!
Amy Nielson says
The last time I took my kids to the park my son broke his arm. Not super excited to go back!
SixPackMommy says
Oh, no- that’s reason enough! We haven’t had any of those injuries at a playground, but my son managed to do the same, right here at home. Figures… 🙂
sara says
We are in the hidden nooks and crannies/ stunts and tumbles phases. It sounds terrible, but you are right! I don’t want to hear about your kids and what they do and what their middle name is or that your son who is rubbing his face against the drinking fountain spout has impetigo BUT isn’t contagious…AHHHHH!! ( I really don’t have time for that!)This is too funny!! Love it
Leslie says
Hilarious. I could have written this. Thank God my kids are bigger now, but I especially remember having to chase them through this one playground because I couldn’t see them and I hated it. And pushing kids on swings? I really really don’t enjoy that.
SixPackMommy says
Thanks, Leslie! I’m with you on the swings; more than five minutes and I’m DONE.
Cristi says
This was too funny! I know what you mean, though. I remember playgrounds when we were kids. Lol…
SixPackMommy says
They were pretty raw in comparison, right? All metal, wood… none of that soft turf to land on.